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    Unhappy "Importance Of “I Love you” When You Mean It - A Perspective Of A Mother" By Crystal

    After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.
    She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you more then I, and would love to spend some time with you.
    The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, Who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
    That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
    “What’s wrong, are you well,” she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
    “I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.”
    She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”
    That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date.
    She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
    She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.
    “I told all my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting”.
    We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. ( I remembered the old days when I was two-three year old how she use to catch my arm).
    After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips, her eyes wet.
    “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said.
    During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing
    extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other’s
    life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.

    As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you
    again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

    “How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered. ( I was deeply thankfull to her ).
    A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It
    happened so suddenly that I did to do anything for her.

    Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
    An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son” & I am thankful to your wife.
    At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU!” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.
    Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”
    **********

    Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an adult, to anyone with a parent. Here’s hoping today is better than yesterday and tomorrow.
    Never wait for tommorrow:
    Today when your child, wife, friends demands from you say clothes, toys, books, movie, going out for restaurant, holiday, weekend though you have it or you dont have it (time/money) but some how you fullfill their demand.

    Have you ever thought to take your parents for a ride, movie, restaurant, holiday, weekend.

    If you have ever thought about your parents then you are next to God.



    SOURCE: http://crystalsbouquet.wordpress.com...e-of-a-mother/
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    Default Re: "Importance Of “I Love you” When You Mean It - A Perspective Of A Mother" By Crys

    Good post man.... good post...
    envy is one of the great sins... but can u resist?
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    Default Re: "Importance Of “I Love you” When You Mean It - A Perspective Of A Mother" By Crys

    Crystal always writes smart stuff and makes me cry or realize ¤¤¤¤. =|
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    Default Re: "Importance Of “I Love you” When You Mean It - A Perspective Of A Mother" By Crys

    very good read.

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